- Repeated unwanted requests for dates
- Discussing personal lives or sexual practices
- Sexually explicit or degrading words
- Derogatory nicknames, comments, slurs, innuendos
- Dirty/sexually explicit jokes or teasing
- Belittling, name-calling
- Inappropriate forms of address i.e. honey, sweetie, babe, doll, etc.
- Suggestive or insulting sounds
- Whistling, catcalls
- Graphic/verbal comments about another’s dress or body
- Encouraging or requiring an employee to wear suggestive clothing
- Unwanted emails, text messages, love poems, love letters, cards
- Obscene poems or limericks
- Sexually suggestive pinups, magazines, catalogs, graffiti, advertisements, calendars, flyers programs/software
- Staring or leering
- Obscene/suggestive gestures or looks
- Derogatory/sexual cartoons, posters, drawings, objects or pictures
- Patting or hugging
- Hair stroking
- Grabbing, pinching
- Kissing
- Brushing against another’s body
- Lengthy non-business-like handshakes
- Physical interference with normal work or movement
- Blocking, trapping, cornering, standing too close
- Following
- Rape, Physical assault
- Forced fondling
Court Case
Cheesecake Factory Will Pay $345,000 to Six Male Employees Who Agency Alleged Were Repeatedly Sexually Assaulted
In its lawsuit (EEOC v. Cheesecake Factory, Inc., CV 08–1207-PHX-NVW), the EEOC charged that Cheesecake knew about and tolerated repeated sexual assaults against six male employees by a group of male kitchen staffers. The company denied the allegations. However, according to the agency, the evidence overwhelmingly showed that the men suffered sexually abusive behavior, including abusers directly touching victims’ genitals, making sexually charged remarks, grinding their genitals against them, and forcing victims into repeated episodes of simulated rape. Managers witnessed employees dragging their victims kicking and screaming into the refrigerator, the EEOC charged.
Complaints to virtually every manager at the restaurant were made, but they never put a stop to it. Victims felt helpless, the agency said, and one finally had to call the police.


